Anonymous asked: Would you feel bad if your fiance is no longer a virgin? I mean, for guys, ladies' virginity is important. But as a girl, would you prefer an experienced man? And I've been wondering what Christian sex could be. Is it lust-less? Would the couple pray before having sex? And are they not allowed to do positions and those things? Sorry if this seemed too, I dunno, sexual but your response will really, really help me understand things. Thank you, Singing DJ.
Well if your fiancé is who God wants you to marry then you need to forgive his/her mistakes and past, and focus more on the transformed life. It isn’t so much that he or she has experience, but if you can preserve your virginity until marriage then all the better. I wouldn’t really know much about sex as I myself have never had sex before. However I do know that God intended sex in the context of marriage to be enjoyed by the couple. If you read Songs of Solomon you would see how Solomon enjoyed his wife. Also is 1 Corinthians 7:5 it says that husband and wife should not deprive one another unless by mutual consent. Sex in marriage also involves mutual agreements between the married couple.I haven’t read anything either that restricts what the couple can do; just as long as they do not defile what God has made sacred by doing immoral and adulterous things (ex. have another relationship outside marriage etc.)