Anonymous asked: I am so lost in my faith and have no idea what to do.. I don't feel God there anymore..
I know how it feels to be so far away, so lost, so confused and unsure of what to do. But what I’ve learned is that no matter how far or lost we are, we’re never beyond the reach of God’s loving arms. I do struggle sometimes with my walk, and I’ve to be honest that I’m far from living a perfect life. But I try to keep going back to God even when sometimes I actually don’t know how. Also what I’ve learned is when we feel like we’re losing grip, we need to go back to the issue on why we are at that point. What things draw us away and then deal with it.
But I know it really isn’t a step-by-step-process-fix-it; but by God’s grace I know you can get through :) God may not always be “felt” but it doesn’t mean He leaves. He doesn’t leave. It’s a promise we can cling on to :)
One day dad borrowed my laptop to check his e-mail and Facebook. Later mom calls me saying “Dot, your dad is crying!”
So I ran to see what was wrong. I saw him reading my tumblr, and he was crying cause he was so happy and proud of me. I told him to stop reading my blog (haha) cause it breaks my heart to see dad cry.
I can only imagine what God must feel when He sees His children growing to be more like His Son. To keep doing what is right. To make Him proud :’)
The thought is so encouraging. It makes all the struggles in life worth it. To make our Heavenly Daddy proud :) that smile is worth it all.
***PS. Daddy if you read this one day, I want you and the world to know that I love you so much :) And thank you for raising me to be who I am today :) <3
If you know what you’re worth, then you shouldn’t settle for anyone of anything less that what you deserve. Sometimes it’s easy for us to jump at any opportunity that presents itself without thinking if this is God’s best for us. Is it the best job? Is it the best choice? Is he the best man? God wants you to have the best, but you need to first stop mindlessly jumping at every opportunity that comes, cause not all the doors that open lead to the best destination. Quietly learn to pray and seek His will before anything else. :)
Jesus be the center of it all :) (Taken with Instagram)
Anonymous asked: Would you feel bad if your fiance is no longer a virgin? I mean, for guys, ladies' virginity is important. But as a girl, would you prefer an experienced man? And I've been wondering what Christian sex could be. Is it lust-less? Would the couple pray before having sex? And are they not allowed to do positions and those things? Sorry if this seemed too, I dunno, sexual but your response will really, really help me understand things. Thank you, Singing DJ.
Well if your fiancé is who God wants you to marry then you need to forgive his/her mistakes and past, and focus more on the transformed life. It isn’t so much that he or she has experience, but if you can preserve your virginity until marriage then all the better. I wouldn’t really know much about sex as I myself have never had sex before. However I do know that God intended sex in the context of marriage to be enjoyed by the couple. If you read Songs of Solomon you would see how Solomon enjoyed his wife. Also is 1 Corinthians 7:5 it says that husband and wife should not deprive one another unless by mutual consent. Sex in marriage also involves mutual agreements between the married couple.I haven’t read anything either that restricts what the couple can do; just as long as they do not defile what God has made sacred by doing immoral and adulterous things (ex. have another relationship outside marriage etc.)
There’s a rainbow always after the rain :) (Taken with Instagram)
Anonymous asked: 3 quick questions: 1.) What is your instagram? 2.) Do you live in the Phillipines (sorry if I spelled it wrong) or America? 3.) What is your take on tattoos? I want one that is religious, something about being a Christian. Is that a sin?
1) hehe pm me instead as non anon and i’ll answer that privately ;)
2) Philippines :)
3) I have awesome Christian friends who have tattoos, like verses etc, but personally I wouldn’t want to have one cause I feel like it’s sort of …. i can’t think of the word… adding unnecessary things to my body which is the Temple of the Holy Spirit :P